Gde su Gospoda? / Where are Gentlemen?


Romantika je nestala, trebamo li se odreći i gospodstva? Da li smatrate da ste vi (muškarci) samo deo ljudske vrste i da ne trebate biti fini, zavodljivi, pažljivi, slatkorečivi i osvajači? Ne slažem se sa time. I ne verujem da sam u manjini. (govorim kao jedinka ljudske vrste a ne kao predstavnik ženskog roda). Verujem da i sami znate to ali da niko ne želi biti drugačiji, ne želi da se izdvaja i pokaže svoju mekšu stranu srca.
Uberite cvet sa nečije ograde i poklonite ga prvoj prolaznici, makar ona imala preko šestdeset godina ili manje od deset. Vratite gospodstvo u vama. Budite heroj sa filma. Ne košta ništa. Kada uđete u prodavnicu, nasmešite se prodavačici makar od nje dobijali samo munje. Ovo će vas naučiti kako da razgalite, omekšate, ženska srca i prepoznate ljubav kada je sretnete.
U javnom prevozu vidite preslatku devojku i osetite trnce simpatije prema njoj. Šta ćete uraditi? Gledaćete je diskretno upijajući svaki delić njene pojave i sačekati da dođe vaša stanica za silazak. Šta dalje? Pa ništa. Izaći ćete iz prevoza i nastaviti svojim putem misleći kako je dan započeo lepo i nemisleći da ste mogli uraditi više. Mislite da vas vaša srodna duša, žena vašeg života, čeka na idealnom mestu u idealno vreme kada ste puni snage i hrabrosti da joj priđete? Ne. Možda ste je upravo propustili. Skupite snage onda kada je prilika pred vama i uradite nešto. Budite gospodin i priđite joj. Kod sebe imate sigurno neke novine koje ste čitali dok ste čekali prevoz. Odcepite prazan deo i napišite svoj broj mobilnog sa imenom. Ispod toga možete staviti trenutni datum i broj autobusa, kako bi i posle dva dana premišljanja da li da pusti poruku ili ne, znala o kome se radi. Možete još nešto dodati (npr. simbol neki, smajli, cvetić...) kako biste dali lični pečat. Presavite papir i pri izlasku iz prevoza, dođite do nje, uputite joj neki romantični kompliment (npr. „Imate lep osmeh koji me ostavlja bez daha.“ ili „Vaše oči su me skamenile, pa sam mislio će slova bolje govoriti od mene.“). Žene (ženski rod) vole pažnju, poštovanje i detalje.
Možda se neće ništa dogoditi jer je i ona kukavica i plaši se da odgovori na vaš smeli korak. Ako i ne odgovori, život ide dalje. Nikako ne trebate tu stati. Zar je jedan poraz znak da nikada nećete uspeti? Ko može predvideti budućnost? Verujte u sebe! Aleksandar Veliki je tako osvojio skoro ceo svet. Veliki osvajači su imali sve dok su verovali u sebe i svoja dela. Dok nisu postali gramzivi, ali o tome neki drugi put.
A bojite li se uspeha? Šta ako ipak se javi? Šta dalje? Razmišljajte džentlmenski i samouvereno. Osvojili ste jednu „bitku“. To je valjda garancija za dalji uspeh.  
Opustite se i prepustite. Uživajte u ljubavi...

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Romance is gone, should we give up nobility too? Do you think that you (men) are just part of the human race and you do not need to be nice, seductive, careful, overly kind and conquerors? I don’t agree with it. And I don’t believe I’m in minority. (I speak as an individual human and not as a representative of the female) I believe that you know it but nobody wants to be different, doesn’t want to stand out and show his softer side of the heart.
Pick a flower from someone's fence and give it to the first female passers-by, even if she had more than sixty years of age or less than ten. Return gentlemanly in you. Be the hero of the movie. It costs nothing. When you enter the store, smile at the female seller even if of her received only thunder. This will teach you how to melt women's hearts and recognize love when you meet.
In public transport you see a sweetest girl you ever met and feel affection for her. What will you do? You'll absorbing discrete every bit of her occurrence and wait your get off station. What next? Well, nothing. On exit you will continue on your way thinking that the day started nice and unthinking that you could do more. You think your soul mate, a woman of your life waiting for you in an ideal location in an ideal time when you are full of strength and courage to approach her? No. Maybe you just missed her. Collect power when the opportunity is in front of you and do something. Be the gentleman and approach her​​. You always have a certain newspapers have been read while you're waiting for transport. Break away empty part of the paper and write your mobile number with the name. Below that you can put the current date and bus number, so that after two days of hesitation whether to let the message or not, know who the person is. You can add something else (eg a symbol, emoticon, flower ...) to give a personal touch. Fold paper and when leaving the transportation, approach her​​, tell her some romantic compliment (eg "You have a beautiful smile that left me breathless." or "Your eyes made me petrified, so I think the letters speak better than me."). Women love the attention, respect and details.
Maybe nothing will happen because she is a coward and afraid to respond to your brave move. If you do not get answered, life goes on. You should not stop there. Is a loss a sign that you will never succeed? Who can predict the future? Believe in yourself! Alexander the Great conquered almost the whole world. Great conquerors have had all as long as they believed in themselves and their actions. Until they become greedy, but about that some other time.
Are you afraid of success? What if she call? What next? Think like a gentleman with confidence. You have won a "battle". It's probably a guarantee for future success. 
Relax and let yourself. Enjoy the love...